The Death of Drama
Rebirth a new identity that is self-led and self-actuated, and is no longer determined by the dogma and shame that were installed in you as a child.
I recently had dinner with an old friend who is nearing retirement from a career as a medical professional.
I asked her who were the most interesting people she had met during her life and career - that has spanned Europe, the Middle East and Australia - with two marriages and two children.
Her reply astounded me.
Many years ago, she had met and treated a pair of twins who, as children, had been experimented on and tortured by Dr Josef Mengele in the concentration camp at Auschwitz.
Unlike their parents, they had been saved from the gas chambers, only to be tortured in a fate worse than death.
Despite this terrible experience, they were the sweetest old ladies you could ever meet, surrounded by their loving community, living full lives, and in total rejection of the darkness that they had endured.
As Neitzsche said, “Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster… for when you gaze into the abyss, the abyss looks into you.”
But, as these twins demonstrated, you don’t have to accept that abyss - you can live an amazing life despite passing through the deepest abyss.
The people that survived the camps fell into two groups.
Those that embraced freedom and took advantage to live the best lives that they could.
The others that remained emotionally trapped in the cage from which they had been physically liberated from.
Generations on from that horror, the grandchildren and great-grandchildren of those survivors are dealing with the epigenetic inheritance.
The inherited impact on their emotional health and wellbeing continues - and violence and war have returned time and time to test them.
There are those that want to inflict punishment on anyone who wrongs them. There are those that just want peace. And there are some that want both punishment AND peace.
The monsters created in the camps live on with the emotional trauma transmitted down from their ancestors who gazed too long into the abyss.
And that my friends, brings me to my subject: THE DEATH OF DRAMA.
It is only through a commitment to uncovering our own darkness, and the death of the drama that we find there that we free ourselves and our children from inheriting those monsters.
Because who amongst us would want our children to inherit our darkness?
Carl Jung directed our attention inward, and pointed out that everything external that we perceive is a reflection of our own inner world.
“Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darkness of other people. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious. The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely. Your visions will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” Carl Jung
My own addiction to drama was caused by the generational trauma that I inherited from my family.
The trauma of starvation and war that impacted the previous four generations of my family ensured that I spent my entire childhood being scolded. When parents and grandparents consistently scold and shout at a child, the child doesn’t stop loving them, but it does stop loving itself.
I was damaged emotionally. As a result, I acted in the most emotionally unintelligent self-destructive fu3ked-up ways you can imagine. The consequences were that I’ve been divorced twice and I once got so broke I was accepting donated food despite having friends who were willing to lend me money.
I have spent the last twenty-five years working on improving the quality of my own consciousness to heal myself. And, I have not just repaired the emotional damage. Each and every time I’ve stepped into the introspection of my own darkness and worked on healing myself, then out of that I have also created the most amazing delicious adventures.
I now live and work in the vibrant city of Singapore in the heart of Asia, I’ve paid off all my debts, and I’ve written four Amazon #1 bestselling books. The results of the work I’ve done to kill the addiction to drama within me have been nothing short of miraculous.
As it turns out, generational trauma impacts not just our emotional health but our physical health too.
My most recent adventure on my self-healing journey started last November in Bali. I worked on clearing the generational trauma inherited in my maternal line.
The major realisation that I had - was that my generational trauma had blocked me from receiving and accepting love.
The limiting beliefs that I had created for myself as a child, over fifty years ago, were that I wasn’t worthy of love and that the price of accepting love came with unconditional surrender to emotional abuse. This realisation made me physically ill, and I spent 8 hours celebrating my 2023 birthday in a five-star hotel by throwing up.
The integration of that realisation has taken me an entire year.
I spent three weeks in treatment for my physical health in a hospital in India in August, and it gave me plenty of time for contemplation.
In that contemplation I realised that my physical health issues were because the person that I had been most blocking myself from receiving love from, was myself.
I had neglected my own physical health because the cage of drama that I had created was based on a foundation of not loving myself because I had been told so many times as a child that I didn’t deserve love. That was my drama.
The greatest healing gift we can give ourselves is THE DEATH OF DRAMA. The drama that we’ve been trapped in since childhood.
I’m not doing this healing for just myself. I’m doing it for my children and my community. I’m doing this healing for you, as kindness to a stranger who is yet to become my friend.
Because the death of drama and the healing that follows creates human beings who deeply care for themselves and each other. When we take ownership of our own drama and take the actions necessary to heal ourselves then we get peace for ourselves and for our planet. The death of drama IS the path to world peace.
And, what I have to offer you, my future friend, is the fastest most effective synthesis of all the healing techniques that I have trained in over the last twenty years.
I am here to impregnate you with the seeds of your own freedom from the addiction to drama.
I can show you the way to kill your addiction to drama.
Together we can rebirth a new identity that is self-led and self-actuated and is no longer determined by the dogma and shame that were installed in you as a child.
A new destiny free from grief, shame, guilt, dogma, paralyzed will, and fear.
A new destiny where you get to enjoy your gifts and talents expand your horizons, and create delicious adventures.
Welcome to THE DEATH OF DRAMA.
I’m going to be opening my next intake for my Ready-to-Rise program in January 2025, and I already have two clients who are committed to joining. I will only have the capacity for four new clients.
So if you’re interested in joining me then Contact Me, or head to my website.
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